Feminine Dualities: Navigating the Balance of Light and Darkness, Softness and Strength.
Goddess of the Night - She was one of my very first Goddess sessions, and she stole my heart. Our Everyday Goddess session took place at Boulder Creek in Boulder. She confidently arrived in her full regalia - a chest plate of raven feathers, a leather bodice, and knee high boots. She said she wanted to showcase her darkness and soft femininity. In every way she inspired me to pursue Goddess Photography. In every way I am grateful for her light.
The essence of femininity weaves a complex and beautiful pattern, embracing a myriad of dualities. From the delicate balance of being soft yet strong, to navigating the depths of darkness and light, women embody a profound harmony of opposites. Embracing these contrasts can lead to empowerment, resilience, and a deeper understanding of self.
Softness and Strength:
One of the most captivating aspects of femininity is the ability to embody both softness and strength simultaneously. Like a gentle breeze that can morph into a powerful storm, women exude warmth, compassion, and gentleness while also harnessing resilience, determination, and unwavering courage. Cultivating the softness within is not a sign of weakness but a testament to the depth of one's character.
The idea of setting boundaries often conjures images of rigid walls or electric fences, creating a sense of separation and conflict. But what if setting boundaries could be a gentle, compassionate act, akin to a soft ring of flowers guiding others where not to tread? It is also the strength to stand up for yourself, to not dim your light for the comfort of others, and to fiercely protect those we love. By honoring both aspects of ourselves, we unlock a profound sense of authenticity and power.
Embracing the Darkness and Light:
Persephone is both the Goddess of Spring and the Queen of Darkness - a dance between the darkness and light. Embracing the darkness does not mean succumbing to despair, but rather acknowledging the depth of our emotions and the transformative power of facing our inner shadows. It is through our struggles that we discover our greatest strengths, and through our darkest moments, that we uncover the light within. The full spectrum of our experiences allows us to cultivate resilience, wisdom, and a profound sense of wholeness. There is beauty in the worn and broken things and it is how the light gets in.
The Balance of Being a Woman:
Finding balance amidst the chaos of modern life can often feel like an elusive pursuit, yet it is in the act of balancing that we discover our true power. In embracing the duality of our femininity, the softness and our strength, the light and our darkness, we find equilibrium, harmony, and a deep sense of fulfillment.
Feminine dualities is not about choosing between one aspect of ourselves over another, but rather embracing the fullness of who we are. Realize that you have and will will be enough.
The Moon is whole and complete in all the phases even when she doesn’t feel like shinning or people can’t seen her light.
Here is what The Goddess of The Night said about our session:
“[The Everyday Goddess Photography Session] was such an uplifting experience. I felt truly free and joyous the entire time I felt lighter emotionally and mentally than I have in a long time during this experience. Vee is such a loving and supportive energy and she really made the experience unbelievably fun, and me feel absolutely radiant.
Vee encouraged me to yell and let everything out before we started (which produced one of my favorite photos of the day). Starting that way really allowed me to feel in my strength and allowed me to unapologetically take up space.
[Vee] create a safe and fun space and the photos were absolutely stunning”
